Posts Tagged ‘Divorce Lawyer Massachusetts’

How Do I Select a Family Law Attorney?

Wednesday, June 3rd, 2009

Anybody can bring their family law case to so and so’s friend, uncle etc.  Many attorneys will take an occasional family case to earn a few extra dollars, thinking that the client might bring them a lucrative personal injury or estate planning  case in the future. To select an appropriate family law attorney you need to determine if he/she is competent to handle the specific law case and whether they are comfortable communicating with the attorney.

To determine whether the attorney is competent ask the following questions:

1) How long has the attorney been in practice?

2) Does the attorney specialize in family law? What percentage of the attorney’s practice is composed of divorce and family law cases?

3) Does the attorney regularly practice in the specific court where your case will be heard - A good way to test this is to ask them to name the specific judges who sit at that court and to have them tell you a little about their tendencies - who do they think would be the best judge for someone in your situation?  the worst? why?

4)  Has the attorney handled enough cases that they can lay out a general strategy for a case like yours in the first meeting  (don’t kid yourself - your case usually isn’t that unique)? And  what level of detail can they can give you as to how  the case  will probably proceed?

5) Does the attorney have specific suggestions as to what you should do now? What are the reasons behind these suggestions and do they make sense?

6) Is the attorney willing to discuss a general range of fees and costs, his/her hourly rate and other details of the expenses and costs involved with you case?

Even if an attorney is competent to handle your case, they might not be appropriate if you can’t effectively communicate with them.

1) Is the attorney readily available to schedule an initial appointment?

2) Does the attorney follow up that appointment with a call, message etc.?

3) Does the attorney return your calls in a timely manner?

4) Do you feel comfortable speaking with the attorney?  Do you feel the attorney is being honest and forthright with you? Does he really seem to care about your situation, or  are you just another client?

5) Do you feel that this person has your best interests truly in mind and is this someone who  will tell you the truth - even if it’s something that you don’t want to hear?

6) Do you have or do you think you can develop a good rapport with this  attorney?

Barry Lewis, Attorney at Law - Divorce Lawyer Massachusetts - http://www.DivorceLawyerMa.com

The Most Common Mistake in Family Law

Monday, June 1st, 2009

Q: What is the most common mistake that is made  in family law cases? 

 A: Parties become so emotionally involved that they fail to act calmly and rationally.  These cases, by their very nature, are stressful. If a party can’t handle that stress, they are at a disadvantage and  will frequently sabotage their own case!   In practice, there are many different ways that this will manifest itself.

Some of the the most common instances of this include:

1) An overwhelming need for a “quick” resolution - even if it doesn’t make sense for the party or the family;

2) An unwillingness to comply with orders of  the Court - which almost always creates greater difficulties for the party;

3) The hiring-firing of multiple lawyers and/or the unwillingness to really listen to and implement the advice of counsel;

4)  Acting rashly and impulsively and taking major actions without consulting with counsel.

An experienced family law attorney will understand that these are stressful times for his/her client and will try to keep clients calm or recommend therapeutic help when appropriate. Parties who find themselves overwhelmed by the process may need to seek professional counseling.

There is an old saying in the family law profession:  ”In criminal cases you have bad people on their best behavior and in divorce cases you have good people on their worst behavior” 

Parties need to understand that emotional behavior is not the  path to the successful resolution of a family law matter.

Barry Lewis, Attorney at Law - Divorce Lawyer Massachusetts - http://www.DivorceLawyerMa.com